I give up. ..
Potty training is just unattainable for me with “J” teething like he is. I don’t think it is doing any good for me to keep pushing the potty if “J” is just going to push back. He can’t control the teething pain so he will hang onto the control of potty time. Thus I conclude I put diapers back on him, swallow my perfectionist pride continue changing 2 sets of diapers, wait until the teeth are in, and give “J” a bit more time.